This morning I began studying the book of Colossians. I haven't studied the New Testament in a long time; I prefer the OT (yeah, I'm weird but we've already established that). So I thought I'd read through it again, slowly, because I always learn new things no matter how much I read it. Today I ran across this little bit:
"We pray that you will be continually strengthened with all the power that comes from his glorious might; so that you will be able to persevere and be patient in any situation, joyfully giving thanks to the Father for having made you fit to share in the inheritance of his people in the light. " ~ Col. 1:11, 12
I thought, "Isn't that a lovely thing to pray over someone?" I really needed that this weekend, when I participated in a large blowout argument with TeenGirl2. Strength. Perseverance. Patience in any situation. Joy. As the argument escalated, I felt each one of these fall away like dominoes. I always feel heartsick after an argument - even a small one. TG2 is the poster child for "Still waters run deep." Extracting teeth with pliers and no anesthetic is child's play compared to getting her to open up. And then when she's angry enough, she throws daggers at my heart with better accuracy than a hitman's. I know she is just venting but I am put in a position where I have to make a stand as a parent and somehow I end up yelling back. I hate it.
So in the aftermath, I actually sat and thought about how I could have done this better. We're okay now because we always end up talking things out. But I want to be strong enough to persevere and patient enough to help her instead of yelling back, because that never works.
I am always thankful for being allowed to share in the inheritance of God's chosen, but the rest of it is exactly what I need. It's okay to pray for something specifically for yourself, isn't it? If so, I want to pray this over me. *Sigh*
Comments (4)
I think it is fine to pray for yourself.
Sorry you had a dust-up withTG2. It is funny how our kids can push our buttons. I have issues with David, he is 13. Man, that kid get me so frustrated faster than a Ferrari can get to 0 - 60. At least you two are able to talk about it.
Hugs!
Absolutely! I'm always super cautious about what I pray for because God always gives me what I need not what I want But he always answers. :)))
Short answer: yes.
But if it helps, I'll pray that prayer for you, too. 
{{{HUGS}}} 
I think it's definitely okay to pray for yourself. Glad you two worked things out though.